Friendship

1342 words Friendship

Life is beautiful when you are surrounded by people who loves you and you them, who respect you and accept of being you. But sometimes when we are too close with someone we started to know their real face and we start to feel disappointed. But when we think our bad sides and then we start to accept people how they are of not changing them, even if doesn’t convenient to us.

A man from their born till when they get old needs to have friends, for a person to be in front of them in good but also and at bad events, to give you advices and share your happiness together. You need to have contact and tell about your problems that inhibits you in life and too many other reasons. About myself I try to be friendly and make too many friends and behave and treat them good. But however everyone has their best friends that have special place in your heart. If it’s spoken about best friends well I have too many. I have one best friend that I have her from primary school. She is so positive and very good person. But she continued in high school medicine and I went to gymnasium and then we separated. But we also have contacts with her; sometimes we hang out together have some fun. But we are not that closer that we have been before. I have also 2 another friends from my neighborhood. They are Turkish girls but I grew up with them. They also are my childhood friends; actually they are my first friends. One of them is married. She married in very young age 18, but also she is three years older than me. Whatever she is too young to be woman, but it was her decision what can we do. While the other had just finished design university and is very talented. Her drawing is amazing. I said to her to design my prom dress. I have also contact with them too but we see each other rarely. Cause I am at school the other one is married she is not here neighborhood to us. But also when she comes to her mum we go and gather all together. And we talk as previously. At high school, in gymnasium I isolated three girls which are my best friends. Also with me too, we are four best friends. They are so different characters each other but they are so positive and very nice persons. Characteristic in our friendship is because we don’t talk about each other to other persons or if any of us is not present we don’t talk about that one. If we have something that we don’t like we say it in face and then we change automatically. So this is best part of our friendship because we never get mad and we never get grieved. They are there for me and help me when I need their helps. I’m sitting with one of them in one table while to others are in front of us. We stay together, eat together, have fun and also we share everything together. When I was first grade at high school out of classroom in one generation I met one person which became very close to me. I like about her because she helps and advices me when I don’t know what to do, but when we managed to 3d year we needed to choose our directions for school. So I became in one class with her. But my best friends they didn’t have nice relation with her. They doest fit with each other and they don’t like her. Well I didn’t know what to do; I was in very bad situation. I liked both of them. I could not leave my best friends but also another one is very nice person for me. All of them treat me so good and I decided to be in balance and accept them all. In life is important to be friendly and nice person, to create and make too many friends but also to set apart some of them which are more important to you. I also tried every time to carry reports with everyone even till now I feel disappointed from two of my friends that I was very close with them. One of them was from my high school but also we are so close with houses. She is my neighborhood too. My family knew them and also they back. We had very close relations with them. She was a little bit negative person and also selfish. Every time she thinks only for herself but anytime, it didn’t prevent me. I was the only person who accepted her for being her, everyone else ignored her. One day coincidently my school friend sent me one photo that was a message which was “my best friend” talked with one girl bad things about me. Well what disappointed me too much it was the fact that she talked about my moral. She had said that I’m not moral girl and I’m not that person that everyone knows me. I am another one in real. I felt very bad and disappointed. Because I didn’t realize that someone could say someone that we stayed too much time together. What could I do? I really don’t tolerate to talk someone about my moral. I even can accept if someone says that I am stupid than if someone said that I’m not moral girl. From that moment I felt very empty and sad. How can someone talk about me, when I was very close with her? I’ve started to lose my trust in others and it looked that everyone else was acting in front of me. It was very disappointing. This situation is 4 years ago, but now a months ago happened another story with one other “best friend” actually mu childhood friend. With her I grew up and we associated too much together She was very good person. If she had 1 bread she would give all to you and she would be hungry. She only thought about other persons. But actually it was not like I thought…. What i didn’t like about her, it was her moral. Everyone that saw me with her said what am i doing with her? She didn’t give you any good insight. Every time i humiliating others how they can say something like that. Coincidentally one night i checked my email when I saw I had one new email from her dad. He had written to me one big email. And has noted me to stay away from his girl because I disrupt her moral and I teach her to make bad jobs. I at that moment I felt totally very disappointed. I was learned that parents from my friends have very respect for me and they tried me so well. And every time they took my like example. Also when i wanted to go out with my friends and if any of their parents didn’t leave her to come with us. I said to their parents and they sad ok I will leave her because is with you. They had truly trust on me. And then what happened? Why he wrote me like that. I was very bad. I felt very offended. I thought to myself why everything happens to me? Am I really bad person? Do i have moral? What did I learn her bad things to do? From that moment I started to stay away from everyone… I’ve started to not trust anyone, even my dad, mom or sisters, to no one. Because I stayed with her like no one else, and I never realized that could happen something like that, but also it happened. Well it’s enough to treat everyone good and to not take things near your heart. Even if someone talks about you bad words you stay and give them a smile. In this way you put everyone down on you…